Am i growing UP because i no longer see the value in attention when there is no substance?

Question

Or am i just being somber?

I used to think it was positive to have work pals to chat with and we laugh together about pointless stuff.

Now i had an experience where they started bullying me and im tired of it. I started ignoring the bullies. Im a female and they are males btw.

So it showed me id rather have real friends and substance from someome than just trying to enjoy my time being around shallow selfish people.

Anonymous · Answer

You just basically learned to separate work life from social life. It's not worth it to get close to people you meet at work.

choko_canyon · Answer

Congratulations, but I'm not sure what your actual inquiry is.