How is being gay normal? Aren’t we wire to want to reproduce?

Question

Not trying to offend anyone 

Answer 1

You mean "wired". Yes, in general all animals are wired to seek to reproduce, including those who are gay. Homosexuality is "normal" because it occurs in a consistent proportion of populations. The relatively small percent makes it atypical, but, it has no effect on the survivability of the individual or of the species. 

Answer 2

Tell it to infertile straight people.