Why do some women hide their boyfriend ?

My friend is dating a guy 11 years younger than her and he’s hung out with our friend group. He’s really mature and cool but he’s still a kid in his early 20’s. 

Is it because he’s young and she doesn’t want to be judged?

Cause I tease her and tell her she’s a cougar but maybe others can be mean. 

Because I know other girls who don’t post their boyfriends. 

5 Answers

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It's true that not everyone wants to be called a "cougar". But it's also possible that your friend just wants to keep her personal life personal. Posting your whole life on social media usually does more harm than good. 

  • 1 month ago

    Most girls don't pose their boyfriends because they know realistically that guy that they are dating is not the one for them. Even if in the end he sticks around and she accepts to stay with him, it is usually due to lonliness and not desire. A woman that desires their partner will be proud of them, like their pictures and want to show them off- this works for both genders. If you sense that the words about how she feels about her partner don't align with her actions, you need to believe her actions because actions speak louder then words. 

  • T J
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    Stop calling her a cougar. Im sure she does not like it. Its people like you that keeps her from showing up with him. In time she will let go of all of you in the group.

  • Tepee
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    She apparently doesn't want to hear all the jealous opinions against their relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    You ever thought that she doesn’t see it as teasing? Perhaps you are part of the problem 

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