My male friend kissed me on the lips and I(M19) kind of liked it. I'm not gay though, any tips?

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  • 1 month ago

    Well you might be bi with a strong preference twords women 

    Like maybe 95 % liking women and 5 % for guys and there's nothing wrong that

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    maybe you are gay

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    America is an unusually uptight culture and country. In Spain and Italy men walk around with their arms through their buddies' arms and Frenchmen give their buddy a kiss. French people have nude beaches and Germans are really relaxed about nudity. Germans can walk to the park on their lunch break, strip and sunbathe. German men and women share steam baths naked. A kiss wouldn't even make a European wonder. But America was artificially created by uptight Puritan Colonists so American guys are driving themselves crazy with homophobia. The answer is within your own mind if you just think about it. You could be bisexual if you are interested in the genitality of both sexes. But that's the only way to tell. You cannot tell from just hugs and kisses. Only if you actually want to go as far as contact with their genitals. 

  • Fred
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    it's no big deal.  Yes straight guys can enjoy anything a gay guy can enjoy.  Plenty of young guys are relaxing these days and enjoying a bit of male on male sex and intimacy.  beside what homophobes say straights can enjoy things like nude massages, masturbation, getting their d!ck sucked and some even enjoy taking a c0ck up their butt, or shoving it up some other guy's butt, and the only difference is gay guys cannot get sexually excited about females.

      Having a bit of sex fun with a male friend will not turn you gay as your true sexuality was set before you were born.  Yes one day you will find a girl to marry and settle down and have a family with but like most guys there will be long periods of no sex with girls, so don't be scared to have a bit of fun with guys as it can be very sexually satisfying.  Just ask any young guy who has spent some time in prison as they learn very quickly that sex with a guy is better than no sex at all, and yes they go back to females when they can get one after their release.

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  • 1 month ago

    Just go with the flow. Plenty of people experiment at that age. Don't worry about how others perceive you and let your own emotions guide you instead.

  • Sky
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Just take a "so what?" attitude and accept the fact that your friend kissed you and it wasn't terrible when formerly you might have expected it would be.  The bigger question is, why did he kiss you, and do you expect it to happen again?

  • Cogito
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    You're either gay or bisexual - not straight.

    Straight guys would never want/enjoy any sexual contact of any kind with another male.

  • reme_1
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Better think about your real feelings. Straight guys do not put up with men kissing them.

  • 1 month ago

    If you liked it, kiss him back.

  • 1 month ago

    You don't have to be gay to enjoy being kissed by a male friend. You don't have to be gay to have sex with him either. Sexuality is not about sex but friendship can be all encompassing.

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