Am I wrong for not wanting to help a friend out?
I have a friend who just moved to the same state that I currently live, but she lives about 50min away from me in a different city. She just purchased a house and started a new LVN job in August. She is newly divorced and a single mother of 4. I told her I would help her out, but now I am feeling like I am being used. She doesn't have any family here and she has be picking up her 7 year old daughter off the bus Mon-Friday. She gets off an hour before her two older siblings get off and shouldn't be home alone. I leave home at 2pm and get there at 3:00 to get her off the bus and wait for her older siblings to get off the bus at around 4:12pm. Also, I have to drive home in Texas traffic and make it home a little after 5pm. She pays me $50 every two weeks for gas, which is not enough, and she says that she cannot pay for after care for her 7 year old. I just learned that she has purchased new living room furniture and will be buying decor for the Christmas holidays. I believe that she does have the money to pay for after care, but she'd rather buy furniture and pay me only $50 every 2 weeks. She has also paid over $300 for a new sercurity system for her home. I feel like this money could be going towards after care. I am I wrong?
- Anonymous1 month ago
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- bluebonnetgrannyLv 71 month ago
I think you are being taken advantage of. I think she has the money for child care. & all you do for her is not appreciated like it should be. See if you can find a reason you can no longer do the things you are doing. Back out of it somehow. Things like this can end a friendship. & her buying all these things is making you feel used & taken advantage of .
- PearlLv 71 month ago
i would just give her time to find someone else
- CarmenLv 51 month ago
You’re not wrong at to feel used or unappreciated when you observe money being spent elsewhere and not on you more for helping her even if she can’t afford day care. Calmly respectfully have a talk with her on how you feel to see if any better arrangement between you can be made financially to help each other out. It only takes one time to furnish a home however the money is coming from but it will take a true friend to be there for her and her kids much longer. Pray for a calm heart and peace of mind.
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- Emily RoseLv 61 month ago
You're not wrong she's definitely taking advantage of you and she's well aware that she's doing it. But she probably senses that you're nice and you don't wanna say anything to confront her. She doesn't wanna pay a daycare to watch them for even a few hours or find a babysitter because she knows damn well that she would have to shell out more than fifty dollars and it would be every week instead of every two weeks. She's trying to get away with paying you as little as possible because she doesn't wanna pay someone who's gonna call her out on her bs she knows that she won't be able to get away with it. If i were you i would stop helping her, change your number, and move on or confront her and tell her you're done and you don't appreciate her taking avantage of your kindness. It's however you wanna do it but ill say it again you're not the one in the wrong she is and she knows it. If i were you i would quit helping her because she's not a friend she's a user and a liar. I would cut her off if i were you.