Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

would this disappoint you or am I being a bi^ch?

I was really fond of this local guy, knew him a few years. Hes in his early 40s. I never seen him with a woman in all that time but thought he must have someone in private since he was so attractive and confident.

Then he went off to another country to study post graduate. He ended up with a girlfriend the same age as my son.

When he came home and came over to say hi, I just pretended not to see him. He approached me a few times and was angry accusing me of ignoring him and even made a remark to me in front of my friend.

I dont know what happened but I think because I never seen who he goes out with that it never occurred to me that he was into girls a lot younger than him. I know its none of my business but it has changed the way I look at him now.

I havnt spoken to him since then.

2 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago
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    If your account is accurate, you're being extremely adolescent and shallow. The fact that he came back with a younger gf doesn't necessarily mean he's 'into girls a lot younger than him', it just means that the girl he's WITH is a lot younger than him. And if that's changed your the way you look at him now and made you ignore him when he came to see you, that's due to your own jealously and nothing else. Kinda basic, and blatant. So blatant in fact that now I suspect you must be trolling and not really this clueless.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Nothing weird about that. Every guy likes younger women. They are prettier.

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