How can I force my adopted parents to love me ?
I was abused by my adopted parents growing up I grew up in an emotionally mentally physically verbally sexual abusive household my adopted parents loved my siblings more and I was a scapegoat I left home at 18 I now have a husband who loved me more than I thought I want my adopted parents to love me right now or else I will make my entire families life a living hell I will create temper tantrums until I get what I want my husband told me that I cannot force my adopted parents to love me they never loved me during my childhood and I need to accept it and move on but I refuse to believe that I will make my own families life a living hell until my adopted parents love me
How can I make my adopted parents love me
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My birth mother rejected me twice
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I will create fits until I get my adopted parents love my husband said I should stop creating fits
- AudreyLv 54 weeks agoFavourite answer
You can't. Grow up. Make a new life with your husband that loves you. Just forget your adoptive family that doesn't "love" you.
- John PLv 72 weeks ago
Do not feed the nasty troll.
- heleneLv 74 weeks ago
You need to be heavily medicated.
- The TaxpayerLv 74 weeks ago
You can't make anyone love you. You can break the cycle and love your kids. I can't say that I identify totally. I am also adopted. I'm 100% Native American (look it too). I was adopted by a white couple and raised no where near an Indian reservation. I had great parents. They're both gone now. I miss them though they've been gone for years. Be a good parent like mine were. Lots of happy memories.
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- Ranchmom1Lv 74 weeks ago
This is common in Troll society - order them to love you.
- 4 weeks ago
You need to get professional help. I don't say that as an insult. What you went through will require long-term care and treatment. your number one concern needs to be yourself and not how your adoptive parents feel.