Za'Asia asked in HealthWomen's Health · 2 months ago

I don’t know how to get aroused?

Im a 23yr old female who has had sex multiple times but never once got aroused or horny and it never felt good.. what can be the reason behind this? 

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  • k w
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    maybe low in testosterone.....you can go get checked, go see a Specialist gyno-doc

  • 2 months ago

    make him / her eat your kitty

  • 2 months ago

    It is possible your secretion of testosterone is low compared with your other feminine hormones. A blood test to include your feminine hormones will alert you your ratio of testosterone to estrogen is not balanced for best effect.A doctor reading your lab report of the blood test can prescribe which ever hormone needs to be increased/decreased.

    harrald

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    The other person made a good point that a female usually has to apparently have direct stimulation to the cltoris to try to reach orgasm.  If you're still having difficulty with arousal, even with that situation, please talk with a board-certified gynecologist.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    So, in the year since you began posting this particular question, you haven't figured out that your boyfriend needs to learn what to do to get you to an orgasm?  First you have to learn where your clitoris is, then you need to work on pleasing yourself.  Once you figure out exactly what makes you feel good, then you teach the BF what works best.  BTW, most women cannot orgasm or get too aroused from penetration alone.  You need foreplay that involves touching your clitoris.  Men do not always know what they are doing in bed...most need to be taught.

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