Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 month ago

Why is my husband so possessed with my sister buying me stuff ?

My sister is an engineer and makes good money and has been spoiling me with crazy with gift cards from Nordstrom and Bloomingdales. thing is I don’t even ask her. I get gift cards in the mail from her. My husband always makes a huge commotion over it. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m just going to start hiding my stuff. I need some kind of peace in my life. 

4 Answers

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    She's making him feel inadequate as he wishes he could do these nice things for you. 

  • Kelly
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    I wouldn't accept gifts out of the ordinary or once in a while but that's just me.  I can buy my own things.

    Hiding things from your spouse will just create additional issues.

  • Tj
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Ask your sister to stop, to keep peace in you life.  Hiding it would only make things very bad when he finds these things.  You may even lose your husband over it.

  • 🦋
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    He's jealous because he wishes he could do those things for you 

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