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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 2 months ago

What to do?? Please help!!!?

What to do when you are in a serious relationship but like lesbian porn & sometimes feel you want to try hooking up with a girl but don’t want a threesome or to lose the love of your life 

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  • 1 month ago

    You need Jesus. Ask for help.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Question is why are you in a serious relationship if you obviously don't care about the girl you are with? Loving and caring for someone means you don't screw around! Grow up!

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Without a doubt explore your desires while you are still younger and have options. Regret at not doing or trying something would be a bummer later on.

  • Ocimom
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    Stop looking at any porn and concentrate on making your relationship stronger.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Someone else has this same problem.  I'll say this is not the love of your life. You can't talk about sex.  It's a bad relationship.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    I have NO idea why you keep posting and reposting this question.

    I always say the same thing.  Tell "the love of your life" what you've told us and, by the way, I'm not so sure he's the love of your life.

  • 2 months ago

    That makes you, fundamentally, just like everyone else in a monogamous relationship. You either choose to forego all other temptations and hold with a monogamous relationship.... or you don't. Your particular temptation is simply a choice like all other choices... yours to make or yours to forego because you have something you desire even more. That's what you do. You make a choice. And you own that choice. 

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Hook up I suppose........

  • blank
    Lv 6
    2 months ago

    You really need to do some soul searching and decide if your curiosities and interests are more serious than "just curious."   Do you really need to explore such options and does that exploration mean more to you than what you have in your current relationship?

    If the answer is yes, then you need to be honest with your partner and lay it out there.  Explain that this is something that you need to do for yourself, and while you understand how it might seem selfish to them, it is better to be honest than live a lie.

    Your partner deserves the honesty and the opportunity to decide for him/her self if they want to stand by you whilst you make this exploration, participate with you or move on into another relationship, ending yours.

    Make it clear you are not asking for their participation nor their understanding.  You are doing nothing more than being respectful of their time and feelings - that it is better to be true to yourself and honest with them.

    Then - you have to live with the results of the decision you have made and disclosed.  While you may be surprised at the response, the most likely scenario will be your current relationship will end.  So be it if you must explore these feelings/thoughts.

    Best of luck.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Then you secretly enjoy your porn and have your relationship.   Just be mindful it only gets harder once the marriage and kids come and that spark inevitably fades.  If you need to explore what you really want out of your life, now is the time to do that.  There's always trade-offs in life.  

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