Isabel
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Isabel asked in Pregnancy & ParentingAdoption · 2 months ago

How can one convince a family member that one is not discriminating against them, based on their adoption?

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  • 2 months ago
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    Unless you make a habit of discriminating against family members who don't share your DNA (all of your in-laws), there isn't a reason for someone to think having been adopted into the family would be any different - do you have a family member who believes this?

    Source(s): Adoptee and Adoptive Mom.
  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Try to treat them equally. Try things like a chore wheel for a week(They sell them at the dollar store, but you can make them with construction paper, cardboard, and arrows, and craft studs and markers.), or make a rewards/punishment program in your house , based on behavior, so on the weekends or when you want to dote on them you can. So they can see it is not based on them being adoptive.

    Source(s): Raised in a similar home
  • 2 months ago

    Treat them the same. Spend the same on holiday gifts for them as for others in the family. Send cards for their birthday. Don't reference their adoption.

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    just prove them wrong

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  • 2 months ago

    Treat them exactly the same way you treat every other family member.  You don't convince someone they're equal with words.

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