Why do I feel guilty about not feeling bad? ?
A 'loved one' has recently been hospitalized and I did not feel bad when they were in pain. I did not feel bad when they were admitted to the hospital. Honestly, I don't think I care.
However, I feel guilty about not feeling bad for them. I think I'm supposed to feel bad but I am more concerned with practical considerations than I am their wellbeing. I am more concerned with myself than my 'loved one'. Additionally, someone said something that makes me think they noticed. I feel this way when people I'm supposed to care about have died or gotten hurt too... I will stop a loved one from getting hurt, if possible, but I don't feel particularly bad if they do.
I do not think this is normal and I am panicking.
- Anonymous4 weeks ago
You can help him by mixing with him. We all are one. All together mixed.