Anonymous
Anonymous asked in HealthMental Health · 4 weeks ago

Why do I feel guilty about not feeling bad? ?

A 'loved one' has recently been hospitalized and I did not feel bad when they were in pain. I did not feel bad when they were admitted to the hospital. Honestly, I don't think I care.

However, I feel guilty about not feeling bad for them. I think I'm supposed to feel bad but I am more concerned with practical considerations than I am their wellbeing. I am more concerned with myself than my 'loved one'. Additionally, someone said something that makes me think they noticed. I feel this way when people I'm supposed to care about have died or gotten hurt too... I will stop a loved one from getting hurt, if possible, but I don't feel particularly bad if they do. 

I do not think this is normal and I am panicking. 

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    You can help him by mixing with him. We all are one. All together mixed. 

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