Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

Why would he lie and pretend to be interested in me?

This man has been telling me how he likes me and how he wants to have something with me. Yet I see he's following some half-naked model on Facebook. I'm not even the same race as the model so I know he doesn't really like me. Why would he lie all this time and pretend to like me? He even got upset because I wouldn't meet him. It doesn't make sense when he doesn't even like me.

1 Answer

  • 1 month ago

    I don't see what one has to do with the other for him. For YOU, sure. Maybe you don't like that he follows other women on FB. Certainly your right to feel that way. But he's likely perfectly capable of liking more than one woman, and more than one kind of woman, at a time. What does he mean by "want to have something with me"? That's pretty open ended! A date? A roll in the hay? A weekend in Paris? A FWB gig? All of this information you have is information for you to decide if you want to date him. If you don't, then don't!  

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