Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 4 weeks ago

Why would someone be totally excluded socially? ?

Hypothetical.. not about me..

Assuming they bathe, have good hygiene, are polite, nice and never rude

Update:

Saw this happen to someone recently

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    Most often because they fail to make the close personal connections with others which takes constant effort.  Some people make the effort but then stop trying and expect others to come to them instead of understanding friendship is a two way street.  But also people grow into friendships and grow out of them which is why the individual always needs to look for new friends and not expect their present friend group to last forever.  

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  • Dv8s
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Perhaps they aren't interesting socially.  A person can do all the right things, but if they have nothing to offer socially, they will be ostracized. 

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    maybe theyre hanging out with the wrong people

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    Probably because they are dealing with self-esteem, self-confidence, depression and anxiety issues.

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    Social groups are rarely totally inclusive. Part of what brings people together is a common dislike, often unfairly, of someone who is not part of their group. It is something children will do and many never grow out of it.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    This comes down to personal choice.  Human beings gravitate to people with whom they resonate and this is not going to be every individual they encounter across their lifespan.  Many people are not going to put their emotional energy into someone, if they have nothing common or simply do not connect with that person.  There is no obligation to include everyone and some people are going to focus solely on their own social network, and never expand this to include others.

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