Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 month ago

Does this mean we are wasting time?

My BF brought up marriage talk about 2 months ago but now he is not ready. We've been dating for 7 months. I asked him if we are wasting time. He just responded "do you think we are wasting time?" Does this mean we are? He said he is not dating others though.


He calls me everyday though.

Update 2:

He said he is committed as BF/GF but not sure about marriage yet.

2 Answers

  • Tj
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    He is not ready, he is unsure about the relationship. He needs time and he needs to know how you feel about him and where you thing this is going....Just talk about it....lack of communication is is a bog reason people break up.

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  • Jerry
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Being overly eager to marry is a good way to get yourself into one very unhappy and complicated situation. You don't yet know each others characters well enough to be considering marriage. 

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