How do you change some one who has depression, is insecure, low opinion of themself, and fights you if you try to help make changes?
Is a hoarder, lives like a slob, is lazy, very moody, high strung yet wont put that energy into being productive.
I'm guilty of it sometimes, but I quickly snap out of it. Like nothing makes them happy, they worry 24/7 and are negative.
If I avoid them they sink further but I can only handle so much.
Therapy is crazy expensive and my suggestions are taken like attacks instead of solutions so I get vented on and its draining.
Should I try to do something really nice for them? Focus on myself?
Help them out more?
We move together.
- PearlLv 72 months agoFavourite answer
not much you can do about it but pray they change