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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 2 months ago

How do you change some one who has depression, is insecure, low opinion of themself, and fights you if you try to help make changes?

Is a hoarder, lives like a slob, is lazy, very moody, high strung yet wont put that energy into being productive. 

I'm guilty of it sometimes, but I quickly snap out of it. Like nothing makes them happy, they worry 24/7 and are negative. 

Its overwhelming. 

If I avoid them they sink further but I can only handle so much. 

Therapy is crazy expensive and my suggestions are taken like attacks instead of solutions so I get vented on and its draining. 

 Should I try to do something really nice for them? Focus on myself?

Update:

Help them out more?

We move together. 

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  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    2 months ago
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    not much you can do about it but pray they change

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