I am trying to persuade my husband into adoption even though we already have four kids. What are some reasons to adopt. ?
We have 3 boys (10,6,4) and a girl (8). I plan to adopt a little 2 year old boy.
- PegathaLv 72 months ago
You asked what are some reasons to adopt, but I would ask you to consider an excellent reason *not* to adopt: your husband doesn't want to.
No adult should have to take on such a huge responsibility against his (or her) will, and no adoptee should have to be raised in a home where one parent did not enthusiastically want him.
- Katherine WLv 72 months ago
How about listening to why he doesn't want to do it? Listen, then repeat it back. Then go away to understand it.
Marriage is a partnership. There's no such thing as "I plan to adopt" when you're married. Either it's "We plan" or it's nothing. There is NO WAY an adoption agency will let you adopt a child if your husband doesn't want to.
- PAMELALv 72 months ago
You have enough children!
- TomalochkLv 62 months ago
It seems like you already have enough toddlers running around already ...((?))
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- pit bulls biteLv 72 months ago
foster parenting is better as you are paid for it
- Ranchmom1Lv 72 months ago
If someone isn't enthused about the idea of adoption, that person should not adopt.Source(s): Adoptee and Adoptive Mom.
- MandyLv 62 months ago
Why is it that you need to ask for reasons to adopt, if you want to adopt a child? You should know what all the reasons - particularly, what your reasons, are. You sound as though you don’t have a clue and are just being stupid.
- Coach SimonLv 72 months ago
Surely the most important reasons for you to adopt are YOUR reasons! Are your (joint) arguments well thought through? Are they purely emotional, or balanced with your intelligence, down-to-earth common sense and heart (who you really are - your soul if you like)? Good Luck!
- 2 months ago
You want to give a child a loving home, able to provide for a child that currently has no one, that child is in need of a family