Anonymous asked in HealthWomen's Health · 8 months ago

What is he doing behind my back?

I been with this man for 12 years and have a r year old daughter together. Here's the story, when he thought I was asleep at night, I would hear these low moans (sex like/female(, but his cell phone is never playing any video simply dark screen and the moans are 2 be heard very vaugly. I thought he was watching porn but therr is never a video on his phone, the screen is pitch black. Well eventually this same pattern has happened frequently when we go 2 bed, especially if he thinks im asleep. I mso confused. He knows what he is doing os bothering me but isn't gonna quit. So I went into the other bedroom 2 sleep, and I hear even louder moaning noises, I hear him mumble some unidentified words, and some laughter. When I confront him he won't tell me what is going on. I know I'm not crazy, my counselor even told me my perception was correct on this situation,  but he wants me 2 doubt my own reality. What os he up 2 that he keeps doing? Is it porn or another woman? He refuses 2 speak up, so im walking.

4 Answers

  • 8 months ago

    Buy yourself a tape recorder and record it. You could also turn over and knee him in his butt and tell him to shut up. It seems he's trying to play with your mind.

  • Anonymous
    8 months ago

    How about walking into the room during one of his "sessions?"  It would be hard for him to get out of telling you what's going on.

  • 8 months ago

    He is playing something recorded and increased the volume when you went out .

    You are not crazy. He`s being a jerk.

  • Rick B
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    How on earth would we know?!?!?!!?!?!?

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