Omar asked in Beauty & StyleHair · 1 month ago

Do i have to cut my hair or no?

I am 21 male and i have long hair 

My gf(about 4 years relationship) wants me to cut it bcz she sees me way better with short hair and more likely hot to her 

I like my short hair a lot 

But if i cut my long hair i will feel like i lost one of my children

I am confused

What to do? 

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago
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    Do not cut it. I understand how you feel. You'll regret it. If she really loves you, she'll understand too.

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  • 1 month ago

    yes cut your hair short long hair males are disgusting

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  • patty
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    she liked u enuff with long hair when she met you. She be controlling.

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  • 1 month ago

    You don’t have to do anything , if you want to then do it 

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  • 1 month ago

    Wear your hair the way YOU want. I personally LOVE longer hair on guys, I wish more would grow theirs. But of course I would never tell anyone what to do with their own hair.

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  • 1 month ago

    Don't cut it if you'll regret it. Life is too short to have regrets.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Dump the controlling *****.

    • Omar1 month agoReport

      So mean

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  • kelvin
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    no you don't and you should only cut it if you want too cut it

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    No you don't have to cut your hair - I wonder how she's react if you told her what to do with her hair. You're a grown man, stand up for yourself.

    • Omar1 month agoReport

      Even if she told me that short hair reminds her when we fell in love

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  • audrey
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Do not cut it. I understand how you feel. You'll regret it. If she really loves you, she'll understand too.

    • Omar1 month agoReport

      Even if she told me that short hair reminds her when we fell in love

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  • Speed
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    I'm a big fan of my husband's "rule" about changing my appearance. "It's your head," he'll say. "You're the only one who gets to decide what it looks like."

    So if cutting your long hair would feel like losing a child, which I totally get, then don't do it, not even if your GF asks you to. After four years, she should love you for who you are and how you make her feel, not for how you look, right?

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    • Speed
      Lv 7
      1 month agoReport

      Yup, even if that's her reason. It's still your head, and if she loves you, your hair isn't a factor.

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