Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 8 months ago

Is he trying to be a gentleman?

Guy had asked if I would be ok with an overnight trip. Told him "I want to cuddle with you, but I don't want to have full sex yet." He said "Whatever you like." What would he think? And is he being a gentleman?

4 Answers

  • 8 months ago
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    "Whatever you like" in this context means, "we can have sex when you're interested enough". There's nothing wrong with that, but it's not so much gentlemanly as awaiting readiness and consent.

    Make sure you trust this guy. The vast majority of men will certainly await consent, but the rare horrible one can become incensed if you don't willingly agree, at some point during the trip.

  • 8 months ago

    sounds like he is

  • 8 months ago

    I won't trust him unless you been with him for 3 months.

    And go out every night.

    I doubt he is being a gentleman.

  • Anonymous
    8 months ago

    He’s gonna stick it in for sure.

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