fencer asked in Social SciencePsychology · 8 months ago

My fiance and I are having issues as she is reluctant to see an anger management specialist. What to do?

She gets ballistic for the most insignificant things... Per her own words, we are putting our wedding on hold until we can get alone. Ironically, she is reluctant to see a specialist. Is there any tips on how to deal with this situation? Thanks in advance.

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  • Carmen
    Lv 4
    8 months ago

    Pray over matter the wise person sees danger and protects themselves red flags tell us certain things if we listen to them if it’s a issue before the wedding it won’t get better after the wedding if it’s not addressed and resolved so since it’s 2 people in this relationship it should be 2 people making mutual decisions not just 1. Communicating is imperative if plans will succeed.

  • 8 months ago

    Yes there is one thing to do,cancel the marriage.

    You can do better.

  • 8 months ago

    Tell her the engagement is off if she will not get couples counseling with you. This is not solely her issue. Then follow through.

  • 8 months ago

    Please walk away ok

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  • 8 months ago

    My tip is simple: Run. This will only get worse with time, and YOU will be the primary target for the rest of your life if you marry this woman.

  • y
    Lv 7
    8 months ago

    Don't marry her, pretty simple. You already know she has issues and she is refusing to get help for them. She is weaponizing the wedding, bet she'll do it with kids and whatever else comes up too. You don't want nor need this, she is not ready anyways, walk away.

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