Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 10 months ago

Why do I always like the wrong people?

Why do I seem to always form an attraction to people who are either emotionally unavailable, taken or still in the closet 

4 Answers

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    10 months ago

    A shrink might say it's your own fear of commitment that causes you to fixate on unavailable people.

  • reme_1
    Lv 7
    10 months ago

    You need to meet more people in a larger selection. Check out Also call the gay center and see if they support social groups of your age bracket.

  • 10 months ago

    Can't control who you like - you just have to keep on looking.

    And if they are still in the closet, you may be able to convince them to come out.

  • abcdef
    Lv 7
    10 months ago

    No one can answer your question for you except YOU.  However, have you thought that maybe you are relationship-phobic?  Do you pick people whom you know to be unavailable on purpose?  I'm just asking - no judgement, but if this is a pattern for you, you really need to examine your own motives.  Good luck.

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