How can I calm my boyfriend down ?

My boyfriend had a bad dream that I died. Me and him are in a band usually he's the calm one out of the 4 of us I never seen him upset like this. He's acting like he's having a panic attack I don't know what's up he's been acting really strange lately not his usual self. How can I calm him down ?

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  • 8 months ago
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    uhhh, seems like he has some other issues going on, dreams can be hurtful  had a bad one that reflected my  current reality last night ( going through a breakup).  just reassure him that it's a fake thing, dreams are part of our subconscious and often reflect our deepest darkest thoughts and fears, it doesn't have any base of being true, it's a fake story, assure him you are not going to die, it's irational to think this dream has any solid base, it brought up bad emotions in him and he's gotta get past it.  

  • 8 months ago

    You cant beyond what you have already done. Time to let him sort him self out.

  • 8 months ago

    I can usually just write off dreams as dreams, but I've had the occasional one continue to affect me - even days later.

    Try talking to him, and reassuring him that it was just a dream.  Give him time.

  • 8 months ago

    Have him pump come into you...?

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  • reme_1
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    8 months ago

    me and him can not be used as subjects of the sentence!!

    It was a dream. Just tell him to relax.

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