How to get over this feeling?
I feel horrible after I loose an argument at workplace with a colleague who is our department head. I feel he has gotten away by saying "do such and such so that you don't keep me angry" it was a kind of favor he asked me to do but he added this sentence which made me feel intimidated. I said nothing just walked away smiling. But I am sure I stood up for myself by saying things when he asked me which I don't agree with him. How do I get over this feeling. Will this go away its own or do I need to retaliate?
- Mars MissionLv 74 weeks ago
Please don’t retaliate as it could lead to being
Fired, better even though l think you were in the
Right to apologise first, this usually leads to the
Other party applogising too and group harmony
Is restored thanks, so make them right usually
Leads to the other party considering your rights
And harmony is restored once more, thanks.
Very Best Wishes
Source:) Private sources.
- martinLv 74 weeks ago
At work, the department head is your superior. He apparently was domineering toward you, and has implied that you might have gotten him angry or that he could become angry if you don't do as he ordered. He's not in an easygoing mood. Better obey his order.