Will my brother become straight?

My brother had some gay porn hidden in his room. I went in the other day and replaced it with straight porn. He’s now freaking out. He thinks it was our parents and that they now know he’s gay. He’s thinking about getting a girlfriend to throw them off. If he gets a girlfriend, will this make him straight? Is there anything I can do to encourage him to be straight?

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  • 4 weeks ago

    No, of course getting a girlfriend won’t turn him straight, any more than getting a boyfriend could turn a straight guy gay. And no, there is no means of encouraging him to be straight, just as there is no means of encouraging you to be gay. Stop being so daft, and keep your meddling nose out of his sexuality.

  • 4 weeks ago

    Cool story bro.  Tell it again.

  • 4 weeks ago

    A girl won't make him straight, no. If he is young, then he may go from gay to straight or maybe even to bisexual on his own, but not always.

    I honestly don't see why it was you care so much about your brother's sexuality. So you're gonna get a brother-in-law and not a sister-in-law... and?

    But before you do anything else... please explain your anonymity, then I'll give you an answer more than 414 characters.

  • reme_1
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    NUMBER ONE : WHY WERE YOU IN HIS ROOM AND WHY WERE YOU DIGGING AROUND IN HIS PERSONAL STUFF. That makes you a shitty brother. It is not your business what kind of porn he watches.

    If he is interested in gay porn, that is his business. Put back his personal videos. And leave them alone. Tell him you were being an ***. And that you are sorry.

    He is already freaked out that your parents found out. He must be going nuts about now.

    When he is ready to come out he will let you know. He should contact the gay center and talk to the counselor and go meet some other gay guys for support.

    For your parents, if there will be a problem telling them, your broother should contact PFLAG. org- a wonderfule support group made up of made up of mostly parents wth LGBT kids who reach out to other parents.

    THer is nothng you can do "TO MAKE HIM STRAIGHT". Leave him be and try to be a better brother.

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  • 4 weeks ago

    This is disgusting behavior. Let him love who he loves. Getting a girlfriend to throw his parents off is not going to turn him straight. He is completely valid and we are all proud to have him in the LGBT community 💓 I hope you will grow out of your ignorance, because he is definitely not going to grow out of being gay.

  • Tj
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    There is nothing you can do, he was born that way. Like it or not, Stop messing with him..Why not just leave it alone or tell him what you did, he is still your bro.

  • PAMELA
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    No, and you can keep your nose out of his business, would you like him to try and make you gay? get a brain.

  • Cogito
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    It's not a choice!

    Surely you understand that?

    If he's gay, he always has been and always will be.

    And there's nothing wrong with it.

  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    Girls can't make a gay man straight. Nothing you do will change his orientation. 

  • God
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    You can't make anyone straight any more than you can make someone gay.  That's the way they were born.

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