How to deal with a drunk boyfriend?

My bf had way too much to drink tonight. He literally can’t walk and he can’t talk proper sense at all, he’s been puking in my garbage can for an hour and a half now, my floor is a disaster from him missing the garbage can and spitting everywhere. He’s totally f***** right now. He keeps dozing off while sitting on my floor then he ends up falling over then he wakes back up and sits on the floor curled in a ball. I’ve literally never been around someone this drunk and I have no idea what to do considering you can’t talk to him at all because his mind is gone. He won’t let me turn off the light and I really don’t wanna go sleep on the couch (he’s in my room right now) because I don’t trust him in there alone. He’s in there right now having a conversation with “me” and I’m not even in there I’m sitting out in my hallway because I don’t wanna be around him. He doesn’t even realize I’m not in there. I’m 19 and he’s 18 and I have literally never seen him drunk until now in the whole 1.5 years we’ve been dating. I just have no idea what to do. It’s 1am and I need to sleep. I can’t sleep in there with him like that and I won’t go on the couch because I won’t want him to hurt himself in there. I really hate alcohol because of past experiences with family, so yes I’m pissed at him for doing this the night I invite him over. I’m just lost with what to do. this seems rediculous I know but please nobody comment any hate, I’ve never been around a really drunk person, I’m new to this

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  • Hypnos
    Lv 4
    1 year ago

    If you've had bad past experiences with family wouldn't it be safe to assume you have been around really drunk people before? I think your mentality probably has more to do with the fact that you don't like what alcohol can do to people and you never thought you'd have to see it for yourself, until now that is. You can't leave your boyfriend alone because he probably has a case of alcohol poisoning from drinking too much, and because he's basically lucid he could choke on his own vomit and not to freak you out but people can die from choking on their own vomit, so make sure he stays upright or leaned over at least. He also needs to drink water, it will flush the alcohol out of his system. If in an hour or so his condition hasn't changed take him to the hospital, he may need to have the alcohol physically flushed out of his body. Chances are he could be going through something right now, so don't jump to conclusions, wait until he has recovered to talk to him about what happened. Right now what he needs is your support because he's not thinking straight and he can't look after himself in the state he is in.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Take him to the ER. It sounds like he may have alcohol poisoning.

  • Logan
    Lv 5
    1 year ago

    Send him to hospital, he might have alcohol poisoning or something.

  • 1 year ago

    There isn’t much you can do. put a trash can by him and try to get him to make sure if he has to puke that he pukes in it. He will be passed out in no time.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    When he sobers up, firstly you gotta tell him he shouldn't drink SO MUCH, secondly tell him he was seeing hallucinations and saying random **** even when you weren't in the room, thirdly, He has to clean the mess he made.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    The guy is an alcoholic.  Tell him to stop, or you're dumping him.

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