My boyfriend likes resting on my breasts but he said 'I love them so much even if they're small'. I am still upset by it?
So my boyfriend has developed this habit of resting his head on my chest, and curling up against me like a little child. Imagine a 6 ft 3 tall guy resting his head against a 5' 5 tall. So we were cuddling and I let him because it's just so cute and tender when he does it, he just rests his head there and gives me those little kisses opening my shirt, complains that he doesn't want the bra to get in his away. At some point I asked him "why do you like so much being cuddled like this?" And he said "because they are so cute and soft they smell so good, they are comfortable even if they are small". I was like "what?" Small? They are average, not small. What does he expect? Some D or F size? They are normal, not small. What if he sees some girls who have like, really small breasts. What will he say, that they are flat? Why does he think so? Is he used to bigger sizes? I told him "if you dont like them you can even get up". He said " no please, it was all perfect, dont get mad". I asked him if he really thought what he said. He replied that I'm still "a little girl", I'm still growing up and it's normal that they are small. I cant expect them to be big, he said. I just got so upset at his answers that I got up and started crying. He came to me but I wanted to go away from him, I was so upset at his words. I went away and he wrote me and said 'please dont let thid stupid misunderstanding get in our way'. I don't know what to tell him. Does he ever think before he speaks?
- Anonymous1 month agoBest answer
I can't help but find the whole arguement silly and cute at the samw time. Your guy was probably good intentioned, wanted just to cuddle and enjoy your warmth, said the wrong thing, instead of focusing on the good words he said you cling to the wrong ones. He messed it up, I won't deny it, but forgive him. Come on, it's clear that he loves you but both of you are somehow immature.
- 1 month ago
Don't get upset, he is just appreciate the beautiful body you have. :)
- 1 month ago
Don't you think you're touchy this way? There isn't any issue worth worrying about here. Pls. take a deep breathe
- ZirpLv 71 month ago
Don't be upset. You are making a problem out of nothing, and it could cost you a healthy relationship. Getting upset just because you choose to be upset might chase any decent guy away from "drama queens"
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- Beverly SLv 71 month ago
So he's probably been with larger women.. Doesn't sound like he was complaining though..
- FoofaLv 71 month ago
In some societies we've be trained to believe bigger is better and that's probably his frame of reference. But he apparently likes yours as they are so I wouldn't pick a fight over this.
- ronich69Lv 71 month ago
Please keep in mind, guys don't think much before they speak.
- wind_updollLv 71 month ago
Any port in a storm, so they say...
- Blue Sky 🐾Lv 71 month ago
Tell him how you feel and make sure he knows it hurt your feelings. Then let it go unless he says it again, and if he does, call him on it right then and their.
- audreyLv 71 month ago
Next time you make love, look at his penis and say"that was nice, even if it is small".see how he likes that!