How can I change myself?
I lived my whole life letting people walk over me. Even now, my wife says ****** up things sometimes and I stay quiet while dying inside. I wish I could stand up for myself. Thanks to everyone who has done me wrong, I feel so dead all the time. What can I do to finally grow balls and call people out on their bullshit?
Thanks in advance!
- Mars MissionLv 71 month agoBest answer
Please do an assertiveness group where you can role play being assertive
And standing up to those that seek to rob you of basic human rights, like the
Right to respect, and it is easy group to do, l did 3, 30 plus years ago and it helped
me be the person l am today.
Very Best Wishes
- 4 weeks ago
No need stay silent do what should be done, that's it and it's the best way.
- 1 month ago
New hair loads of different ways to change yourself if your truly that unhappy with who u are.
- Anonymous1 month ago
Be prepared for none of this stuff that happened before ever happening when you change yourself. I’m sorry
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- (A)Lv 71 month ago
Bob Griswold hypnotist has really good cds on correcting personality disfunction.
- falconLv 51 month ago
Use hypnosis to understand why you are behaving like that
- 1 month ago
It seems like you are a mild mannered person maybe if so sometimes people take your demeanor for weakness unfortunately whatever the case pray for courage to speak up as needed pray for right words to respond as needed pray for peace of mind and to keep a calm heart and pray to be peaceable as far as it depends on you despite others actions
Read some books on communication/assertiveness for starts
- 1 month ago
i believe a confidence building course and lessons in 'assertiveness' could help you, a lot of times, its all about speaking up and being assertive with people, putting them in their place assertively.
- zenoLv 61 month ago
Ever tried baby steps? Pick a moment to
Humorously oppose something or decline
Doing it. I refuse to follow dating guide lines
Like opening ever door for a girl. I only give
What girls give me in return. When they open
Doors for me then I will open them for them.
Same with everything. It's a polite trade negotiation. I don't give them sex when they want it
Unless they give it to me when I want it. So
If the withhold anything so will I. It's relationship
Equality. Only expect from me what you are
Willing to give me in return. Nothing is free or
Given without a counter expectation. Oh you
Want __________ so your willing to give me
That right? A diamond ring, a new house,
A new car, etc etc etc... It's a give and take
Fair trade deal.