Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 3 months ago

Should I dump my girlfriend for self harming ?

I knew she had self harmed because when I met her I saw her arms were covered in scars, she’s done it once since we’ve been together because her abusive ex was harassing her. And I think she’s done it again because she’s wearing long sleeves and saw blood in her hands,

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  • 3 months ago

    Anyone who self-harms has dire emotional issues which have been lurking in their lives for a LONG TIME. This isn't something new. She needs help and she needs to WANT to get help and to make life changes. If she hasn't, then she's not improved.

    If you're uncomfortable in a relationship, ask yourself why you're in it.

  • Helen
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.

    She needs support - you are not up to the job.

  • Frank
    Lv 5
    3 months ago

    We date people to determine the suitability of someone to be a MATE and a PARENT. This female...OBJECTIVELY SPEAKING...is completely DAMAGED. I would OBJECTIVELY not want her as a WIFE and CERTAINLY not a PARENT.

    She needs assistance...and YOU are not the one to provide that assistance.

  • 3 months ago

    Convince her to see a therapist.

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