My boyfriend goes can't get hard with a condom?

He still wants to wear a condom even if I decide to go on birth control because he's too paranoid that I'll get pregnant. We had sex only once (we were both virgins) and the condom felt uncomfortable for him, so it sucked so much for the both of us. He can't last long because he goes limp and I... show more He still wants to wear a condom even if I decide to go on birth control because he's too paranoid that I'll get pregnant. We had sex only once (we were both virgins) and the condom felt uncomfortable for him, so it sucked so much for the both of us. He can't last long because he goes limp and I don't know what other option there is. I want a better experience but I don't know what else to do.
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