Oh dear. You didn't make him breakfast? Poor guy! How is he supposed to get food in him, now that his hands are obviously broken, making it impossible for him to make himself even just a simple sandwich?!
Lady, my kids (5 and just 7) manage to fix their own breakfast. So unless you married a 4 year old, I'm sure he doesn't need you to feed him. In fact if anybody should make the other person breakfast, HE should be making YOU breakfast, seeing that you're the one who works outside the home.
What this man is demanding of you isn't respect. It's servitude. He is using your desire to have another child, this struggle with secondary infertility, to blackmail you into being his good little slave.