I think zhe iz , ironically , hinting
that you let you oughtta weep (wherever) rather than bottling it then letting go in cuzzing aloud, inztead.
Mildly, fondly , jozhing at you imho.
Lizten for her inflectionz (tone of voice, the attitude it conveyz for you ).
:) 0h, but yeah, the teen yearz are a lezzon in multiple levelz of learning how (or not) to navigate, I recall.