Being a virgin is literally eating me alive and effecting my life. What should I do?

I’m a 22 year old guy and I went to the doctor. She asked me the same questions that they always ask “Are you sexually active?” etc but when I said no she proceeded to ask “No? Never?” And I told her no. That’s when it literally hit me that I have been turning down girls my entire life and that most people that I’ve read and looked at online are saying they’ve had 15-30 partners by my age and it’s killing me to know that I’m missing out on this. I’m not an insecure person but for some reason this has me feeling some type of way. The fact that my future girlfriend will probably have been with 15 or more guys and I haven’t had sex yet kind of gets to me. I’m not one to judge people for having tons of sexual partners and I believe that people should be able to do whatever they want to with their bodies but knowing that she will probably have had more partners than me makes me feel kind of nervous and I feel like I’ll get cheated on for not being good enough. I just recently had surgery and I’m still recovering so I won’t really be able to socialize for about 4 months. What should I do in the meantime about the way that I’m feeling?

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  • M.P.
    Lv 5
    5 months ago

    Just do it. Nike.

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  • 5 months ago

    Don't always believe what you read. Besides being a virgin by choice, is an ADMIRABLE thing. There ARE women virgins also out there.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    You should be telling your doctor that you are in the process of being devoured. Or that you're grossly misusing the term literally.

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  • Hannah
    Lv 6
    5 months ago

    I'm 26 and I haven't even had sex with 15 guys or even 10... I could have but I turned down many people too. Although, a couple of my close friends that I grew up with has lost count... 😬 I personally think that's gross, but to each and their own. I keep it to myself. 🤷‍♀️ But not every girl has, is my point. Just recover, think about what you wanna do with your life and go from there. Don't put yourself down for it, it's ok. Just means you're not a pig or a douche.. You'll find someone.

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  • 5 months ago

    You should definitely start sleeping with guys so you won’t be behind your future wife.

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