Do you believe that you can be married to someone who you feel lukewarm about?

for instance, you're in your 40's clock is ticking and you want to have a family. you meet this guy and he has a good personality but that spark is missing. you don't feel too much chemistry. you're just kind of going wit the motions. in your head you have a list of exactly what you want that drives... show more for instance, you're in your 40's clock is ticking and you want to have a family. you meet this guy and he has a good personality but that spark is missing. you don't feel too much chemistry. you're just kind of going wit the motions.
in your head you have a list of exactly what you want that drives you wild but you fear as a 40 year old woman you might never find it and so you settle for a lukewarm romance
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