Is it okay to punch your wife if she curses at you?

I used to curse at my husband and he hit me a lot and therefore, my parents said I deserved it which means taking responsibility for my actions like a good wife should do.

Would you agree with my parents about this?
Update: Traditional men marry b*(&hes and then abuse and groom them into housewives.
Update 2: It's no wonder western women get abused more often because they curse a lot and do other unfeminine things. Red pillers and other masculinists say women should be kept in line as in spare the rod, spoil the woman.
Update 3: I think western women should behave like women in conservative countries and societies so that way they will be desired. They should be passive, silent, and obedient to what others want. Be codependent, not independent.
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