how to put rude people in their place?
so there's this guy who likes me and whenever i offend him by replying to his messages late, he gets upset over this. recently, he has found my weakness and has been using it against me whenever i upset him. now, if i ghost him, he'll reveal this weakness of mine to everyone. i'm sure a simple talk won't work on him. he's been emotionally manipulative, i just can't stand it anymore because we are not even in a relationship in the first place. so how do i get to turn the tables on him that he'd never dare to expose my weakness?
like i said, if i ignore him, he'll expose my weakness.
- 6 months ago
Read about narcissists. It's highly likely he is one. How does your friendship with him make you feel. That's a big clue. Is he doing drugs, playing awful games that upset you, and is he now the only thing going on in your world? If so, RUN, and get your life back. You should have a genuinely nice man that makes you feel happy.
- Jess4rsakeLv 76 months ago
Tell them that they are rude and wrong in their tactics of bullying and harrassment, then block them. They are not worth any time spent in conversation because their primary motives for communication are destructive and pointless.
- HeikeLv 66 months ago
A manipulative person, never give in to that sort of behaviour, Everybody has weaknesses, even him. Tell him to take a hike and block him.
- Anonymous6 months ago
Tell them to suck ur dong
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- AnnLv 76 months ago
People will only abuse you if you allow them to do so. Don't allow your "weakness" (which I'm guessing is absolutely nothing you couldn't overcome) to be something this creep can hold over you, because you are going to notify your true friends that he is stalking and harassing you. Print out his emails and take them to the police, and you can legitimately say to him that you've contacted the authorities. Then you block him and advise your friends to do the same, because if he will do it to you, he will do it to them, as well. Then you totally ignore him, and if necessary, get a restraining order against him so he knows you mean business.
- Jerry SLv 76 months ago
totally and completely ignore him.
- Stacie SmithLv 46 months ago
Wow, he’s immature.
Who cares if he exposes your weakness? What will that do? If he exposes it, you shouldn’t care. He is only threatening you with it because he knows it bothers you.
Ignore him. Block him.
You need to not care because I’m sure it’s not a big deal. If anyone finds your weakness out, laugh it off. Show it doesn’t bother you.
- BettyLv 76 months ago
Either ignore them or tell them what a plonker they are............
- Alan HLv 76 months ago
Why stoop to that childish level?
- TealLv 76 months ago
Block and ignore him. Before you do, tell everyone you know that this guy has been harassing you and has threatened to start harassing them too. Ask them to block him. If they don't, or if he contacts them anyway, you will have already established that he is a nutjob cast doubt on whatever he shares. Though if some random guy knows your weakness, it probably isn't much of a secret. Stop letting it control you and get rid of the creep.