Are there other ways to deal with people who constantly complains?

Almost everyone I know complains constantly I know it may sound like I am now but I’m asking for help because I am ready to snap at all of them and one of them is my mom. They will complain about the smallest things I spent less time with my mom but it doesn’t help because we take the dog for a walk she complains I... show more Almost everyone I know complains constantly I know it may sound like I am now but I’m asking for help because I am ready to snap at all of them and one of them is my mom. They will complain about the smallest things I spent less time with my mom but it doesn’t help because we take the dog for a walk she complains I go out to the kitchen to get food she complains it’s always about something. When I spend less time with her I noticed that she will use one of the neighbors her friend to vent to yet I caught my mom complaining about them. I ignore most of it but it doesn’t make her reduce the complaining I also have a friend I talk to time to time they are the same way. I will be honest I used to complain with my mom sometimes but I noticed how draining it was so I stopped so maybe that’s why it’s making me wanting to snap so badly and maybe it’s driving her a bit crazy I don’t really anymore.
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