She is emotionally immature, and will always equate you with her lost virginity. I would advise you to move far away so that she can't find you. She sounds like a potential stalker. My husband had a girlfriend like that when he was in college. The girl was very insecure and clingy, and when he tried to break it off, she started stalking him and his sister. It got to the point that he moved two states away in order to avoid her. She found out where he had moved, and showed up on his doorstep. He had to get a restraining order against her. Years later, when he went back for a college reunion, there she was again, in spite of being married and having kids. By that time, we had been married for several years as well. She had gotten his address from the alumni association, and she began to send nude pictures and pornographic collages. This went on for several months, even though my husband never acknowledged any of it. My husband called her husband at his office, told him he was mailing him what she had sent, and said that if she didn't cease and desist, he would charge her with stalking and send the information to their local newspaper. Her husband is an attorney, and he didn't want the publicity. We quit hearing from her, but she's still out there.