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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 3 months ago

Is it bad that I like white men?

I’m a Hispanic girl (I know that Hispanic is not a race but a ethnicity) that like white men but in my family are telling that i like white men because I’m racist but I’m not. It’s just that I like them over other kind of guys. Also, they are telling that how would I like them if they are shooters and blah blah. I tell them that not everyone is like that. It’s like if someone say that all Hispanic are thief.

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  • 3 months ago
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    No, not at all. I’m a white woman who likes black men and my family who are not racist, would have preferred for me to date a white man; because I had some bad experiences with black men in the past. I had to explain to them that I’ve had bad experiences with white men, too. That not everyone’s the same and I’m not attracted to my own race, while I am proud of my heritage. Sometimes the previous generations had less contact with other races, so they don’t know what to expect. You just have to not allow them to decide for you who you should date. My mum and my aunt tried their best to make me feel obligated to date a white man but I don’t want to. It’s your life. Who you’re attracted to is who you’re attracted to and no one else’s business. Good luck with hitting on white men. I’m sure you’ll meet a good one. Interracial dating is becoming more common nowadays.

    • Anna
      Lv 5
      3 months agoReport

      I like black men as well but my family wouldn't care if I dated a black guy. My ex is Chinese and my family were fine with me being with him, until he started slapping me in the face that is but that wasn't a racial issue he had anger problems.

  • 3 months ago

    You feel this way now..

    After you’ve dated a few white men perhaps then you will be more opened minded in dating men of your own kind. The choice is indefinitely yours. But what is it about white men that you can’t find in men of your own race? Honestly Hispanic men are much more passionate, romantic, loving than white men who seem more shallow. You live and you learn

    • JULIO3 months agoReport

      How many white men have you been in romantic relationships with?

  • 3 months ago

    The truth is white men would only be with white women. I think its due to their racist nature. Foreign white guys say like swedish guys had no problem dating interacially.

    • JULIO3 months agoReport

      I'm white and Latino women are my favorite women. Why would you assume that white men only date white women? Have you noticed how much lighter African Americans are than people directly from Africa? Why do you think that is? You don't need to have a PHD from Yale to figure it out!

  • 3 months ago

    I guess I know how you feel in a sense, I'm Hispanic and I only like black girls. It's what makes us unique. If you like pussy *** white dudes that's just your preference, who are we to judge, it's your life.

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  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    Bad ? Lol what do you mean . To each his own ...I only date mixed guys

  • 3 months ago

    It depends on the person

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    No one can tell you who you should like

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    According to a strict "NON' Racist" ideology you have the perfect right to like ANY type you want and it's actually "Racist" to say otherwise,,

    Especially since according to such ideology, in a perfect world a century or two from now virtually Everybody should all be the same color with the same kind of gentiles even if they have to be surgically corrected at birth!

    Tell your Psycho-deluded Labiatard friends to go F*ck themselves!

  • 3 months ago

    No, love is love. But from being Hispanic raised in the culture we do find it weird and uncommon. Just because we have trust issues with White people but if he’s a good man than he is a good man. Regardless of color.

  • 3 months ago

    "Hispanic" is neither a race nor an ethnicity. It refers to language origins and says nothing about nationality, culture, skin colour, ancestry or religion. Anyone is allowed to like anyone. Who you like is not determined by any of the factors I have mentioned.

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    Nah, why? I'm white Canadian and I find Hispanic girls pretty attractive, though I'm gay...Hispanics in general are handsome and sweet.

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