I am dreading turning 21 in 4 months. What should I do?

Hi everyone so for some reason I am not excited for my upcoming 21st birthday. I know it’s a big birthday and I should be excited but it just seems that my time as a kid and minor is over and I will never get those years back again. My family is also probably going to force me to drink when I don’t want to. I know... show more Hi everyone so for some reason I am not excited for my upcoming 21st birthday. I know it’s a big birthday and I should be excited but it just seems that my time as a kid and minor is over and I will never get those years back again. My family is also probably going to force me to drink when I don’t want to. I know I sound pathetic for complaining, but how can I overcome this feeling? Is anyone else feeling the same? All answers are appreciated.
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