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Is it normal that I love children but I don’t wanna have any ?

My mom passed away few days ago of cancer and my sisters and I are very young. I’m only 19 and the oldest of 4. I’m just afraid of putting my kids through same thing. Am I wrong ?

2 Answers

  • 10 months ago

    I think you are very far away from needing to know the answer to this question. Right now, you need help to figure out what to do about your siblings. Is your dad around? Or their dad, depending? Please call the hospital where your mom died, or her doctor, and ask about counseling for you and your siblings. There is grief counseling.

    You have 15-20 years before you have to figure this out. What you're feeling is normal right now.

    I'm sorry about your loss.

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  • 10 months ago

    You are only 19.

    You are going through greif.

    Your opinions on having children could change.

    If they don't change, that is ok.

    There are far too many people in the world as it is.

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