Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 5 months ago

Am i bad son or a bad person for retaliating?

My dad has been hitting me and verbally abusing me for years.

Initially i was very submissive and i took it without retaliation.

Then at a point of time i had enough i turned aggressive.

I have hit my dad and verbally abused him in retaliation.

So does this make me a bad person?

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  • 5 months ago
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    not at all

    retaliation towards an abuser doesn't mean you're bad

    it means you've finally stood up for yourself

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    i dont think so but if youre getting hit like that you need to call cps so they can put you sornewhere else

  • 5 months ago

    Please speak with him and ask him to stop right now. Do this conversation in the presence of responsible family members. Make them aware that you are being abused. If it does not stop, then report to local police.

    • Harsh5 months agoReport

      Well all my family members consider this behaviour as disciplining not abuse.

      They don't think there is anything wrong with punishing your son.

      You do seem to be an Indian. I'm an Indian too.You know how it works here.

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