My husband when we were arguing said that "no other guy would put as much effort into our relationship"..?

I feel like that was a really hurtful and cruel thing to say, but he hasn't apologized yet. We have been arguing a lot lately but it still feels horrible to say. What do you think?
Update: He meant it in the sense that no other guy would put up with me. Then he said he didn't want to discuss the argument anymore and shut himself in a different room.
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