My wife who is dying wants me to remarry for the kids, what do tell her?

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, she was diagnosed with leukemia and she beat it but it came back and its terminal. My wife wants me to marry her best friend so our son won't grow up without a mother, the best friend is okay with this. I'm an emotional wreck because I feel like I won't be... show more My wife and I have been married for 3 years, she was diagnosed with leukemia and she beat it but it came back and its terminal. My wife wants me to marry her best friend so our son won't grow up without a mother, the best friend is okay with this. I'm an emotional wreck because I feel like I won't be able to properly grieve my wife and this makes me very sad. Her best friend is a kind woman and I have no doubt she'll be a great step mom. Am I being selfish about this?
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