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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 5 months ago

do we need protection if he’s had a vasectomy?

i’ve been talking to this guy for 6 months now and i think tonight is finally the night. during our talking he had a vasectomy. does this mean we don’t need condoms or birth control? neither of us have or ever had any std’s or sti’s btw

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  • alan P
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    I don't know how old he is but someone in their 20s who has never had children is unlikely to have had a vasectomy I think. If he's 35 and has had 3 children by a previously relationship then its much more plausible.

  • 5 months ago

    How do you know he is telling the truth? You don't. He can have any STD as well. Once your pregnant that is it. Don't trust words.

  • 5 months ago

    i have shot blanks since 1977........but i never tell my partners

  • 5 months ago

    If he really had one, no.

    If he's lying, yes.

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  • 5 months ago

    Go for it if you get pregnant do two things. 1. Marry him. 2. Sue the doctor who performed the vasectomy.

  • hi
    Lv 5
    5 months ago

    I hope you don't mind my advice . I think you guys should first get married and then make love .

  • Byrd
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Or he could be lying

  • 5 months ago

    Don't fall for the story of vasectomy, use condoms

  • MissA
    Lv 7
    5 months ago

    Do you trust him?

    Vasectomy is an excellent method of birth control. I have personally been relying upon it for 5+ years now with no pregnancies or scares.

    However, I trust my husband absolutely, with my entire life and future. Also I drove him to and from the urologist where he had the operation and sat in the waiting room. If you are 100% confident that this guy knows his STD status (most people with STDs don't know it) and would never ever lie to you about that, or about his having had a vasectomy... then yeah. It's fine.

    If you*don't* have that confidence make him put on a condom. It's not gonna kill him.

  • Anonymous
    5 months ago

    Don't trust him, talk is cheap.....

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