Husband wants divorce out of nowhere I’m shocked?

My husband and I have been married 12 years. We have 2 daughters they are 9 and 7. My husband came home from work early today and told me out of nowhere he wanted a divorce. We haven’t had any real serious marital issues. He told me he only wanted 1 kid not 2 and that the children are now cramping his style. He... show more My husband and I have been married 12 years. We have 2 daughters they are 9 and 7. My husband came home from work early today and told me out of nowhere he wanted a divorce. We haven’t had any real serious marital issues. He told me he only wanted 1 kid not 2 and that the children are now cramping his style. He told me he’s accepted a new job in California (we live in Minnesota) I had no idea he was even looking for new work!! I’m honestly in such shock and disbelief I’m shaking. Does anyone have any advice? I don’t even know where to start. I just found all of this out an hour ago!
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