1. You are lucky to be alive. Blessed would be a better word. This life is your opportunity to grow up to be like the father of our spirits, God.
2. No, God doesn't ignore you, but no good father would ever give his children everything they ask, especially if what they ask is not good for them. Also, the chances of getting what we want improve when we obey him, keep his commandments, give up our sins, and do good to other people.
3. God is in his heaven, in another universe.