Neighbors funeral?

I've known the man for 15 years and we were friends. Funeral is soon. He is the deal... I do not have a suit and never have had one. Which is worse? No showing up? Not showing up for the wake but going to the burial in Jeans or going to both in Jeans? I don't think I even have any pants that fit that... show more I've known the man for 15 years and we were friends.

Funeral is soon. He is the deal...

I do not have a suit and never have had one.

Which is worse? No showing up?

Not showing up for the wake but going to the burial in Jeans or going to both in Jeans?

I don't think I even have any pants that fit that are not jeans.

I have some dress shirts though.

How disrespectful is it to not go?
Update: I really don't want to go & hang out so what is acceptable? Go only to the funeral or only to the wake if I don't want to hang out a long time?

Its blistering hot where I live. Will be 95.
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