If you boys can't work it out between yourselves, n9t much that the rest of us can do.
However,if you really DO believe in an ALL-Powerful GOD by the name of Jesus, don't ask US! Ask JESUS.
Just write YES and NO on opposite sides of a coin, drop it in a clear jar, fasten the lid, and shake the jar while praying
"O Jesus, please use your UNLIMITED POWER, to nudge this coin to reveal to us THY Divine Will. Should we continue to help each other achieve orgasm??"
(Surely, a God which could push this planet into the Habitable Zone, can nudge a coin!)
Stop shaking the jar, and gaze upon the answer which JESUS Himself hath revealed unto thee.