Boyfriend's family is judgmental?
After 2-3 days of her asking him to do a house favor and disregarding his late work schedule, she lashed out, saying unforgivable things including, "Ever since you began dating X, you stopped being a member of our family." His step-mom felt we were rude because we didn't spend quality time with her in her home. His family is incredibly nosey and judgmental. They make comments to him such as, "You're too busy for us" "Nice to see you, stranger" and its incredibly uncomfortable. We get guilt-tripped and nagged into spending time with them and its incredibly toxic. It's stooped as low as them not even buying me a birthday card for my birthday.
My boyfriend feels an obligatory loyalty. My boyfriend has since moved out and there's already been comments, "He doesn't show his face but it's expected from him" but I feel very offended and distrustful of the women in his life. Any advice -- I HATE BEING PHONY.